Inn at Bay Harbor Wedding | Catie & Jack
Bay Harbor holds a special place in Catie and Jack’s hearts. Catie spent her summers in Northern Michigan, and her family has owned a place at the Inn at Bay Harbor since 2006. With nearly two decades of cherished memories there, it was already her favorite place in the world. Bay Harbor also holds a special place in Jack’s heart, as it was one of the first places they visited together after they started dating. Their winter getaways there have become a beloved tradition, making it impossible to imagine getting married anywhere else.
Jack remembers waking up feeling more anxious than he expected. With some last-minute cards to write and speech notes to print, he found himself pacing around his room. Relief came around noon when his groomsmen, DJ and Will, arrived. Their jokes and stories about the previous nights helped calm his nerves, though the anticipation of the first look with Catie kept him on edge. The moment he saw her on the balcony, with the lake and cloud-covered sky as a backdrop, his anxiety melted away, replaced by pure joy.
Catie, on the other hand, entered the wedding week with a mix of nervous energy and excitement. As a planner, she wanted every detail to be perfect, especially with 173 of their closest friends and family traveling from afar to celebrate with them. The morning of the wedding, despite barely sleeping the night before, she felt an overwhelming sense of calm.
Surrounded by her favorite women in her parents’ suite, the vibe was just perfect—happy, energetic, and calm. She recalls her bridesmaids helping her steam her dress with its dramatic train and her mom helping her into it. The moment her mom did up the buttons, they both felt the significance of the day: “WOW, WE’RE HERE!”.
Catie also shared a heartfelt first look with her dad. She’ll never forget the genuine awe and joy on his face when he saw her. It was a beautifully authentic moment, unplanned and perfect.
The day was filled with unforgettable moments. The rain scattered their guests around the lawn and terrace, making their aisle start right from the hotel exit. This unexpected twist allowed them to see the faces of so many loved ones as they made their way to the lake. It was a breathtakingly beautiful walk they’ll never forget.
The speeches from their maid of honor, best man, and father of the bride were incredibly heartfelt, reflecting their love story and journey together. The dance floor was electric, with non-stop hits keeping everyone on their feet.
After the reception, they led their guests to one of their favorite spots, NOMAD in downtown Bay Harbor, for an after-party. By 11 pm, the rain had stopped, and the walk along the lake was magical.
Jack’s favorite memory of Catie was when she tossed her umbrella aside as she walked down the aisle with her dad. It was a bold statement: “RAIN OR SHINE, WE ARE DOING THIS!”
Catie’s favorite memory was their first look. Standing on her parents’ balcony, facing the lake, she felt exhilarated as she waited for Jack to see her. The joy in his eyes when he finally did is a moment she’ll never forget.
Reflecting on their special day, Catie and Jack have some advice for other couples. They were told to be present, take mental pictures, and soak in every sound, smell, laugh, and smile. They were hesitant about the first look but were glad they did it—it brought a sense of calm and excitement.
Jack advises focusing on the most important thing: marrying your person. Catie reminds couples that some things are beyond control. Once the big day arrives, take a deep breath, be present, and celebrate with all your loved ones. Focus on what truly matters: the love you’re declaring to the most cherished people in your life.
Bay Harbor was the perfect backdrop for Catie and Jack’s wedding, a testament to their love story, filled with unforgettable moments, genuine emotions, and the joy of celebrating with family and friends. It was truly a day they’ll cherish forever.
Preparation, Ceremony, and Reception Location: Inn at Bay Harbor | Hair and Makeup Artists: Up North Beauty | Dessert: Simply Sweet by Jessica | Band: The Elysium Experience | Invitations: Smitten Boutique |
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